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If you’re a mom or know someone who is, you already know that being a mom is amazing, demanding, scary, and stressful all at once.

Stains, spilled milk, sticky hands, and loads of laundry are all part of a mother’s life’s trials and often failures.

And every time you think you’ve finished, there’s always another pile of clothes or a smudge waiting.

Even though we often use the term “misery” for fun, it can still be very depressing.

It is completely normal to experience times when we lack patience.

Heather Duckworth is a Mother who is as well-versed in all of this as anyone else, but she also possesses a necessary reminder for mothers all over the world.

Sadly, this realization was brought on by an unimaginable tragedy.

Heather Duckworth is a mother unlike any other in many ways, but there is one thing that stands out about her.

She lost her son on June 12, 2005, and ever since then, she has worked diligently to convey her significant message to all parents.

Under the title “The Blue Spot,” Heather shared her story on Facebook in 2019. You’ll quickly see why so many people are moved in to tears if you read it for yourself.

It all started when Heather picked up the slime that her daughter had dropped on the floor. After that, she understood everything.

Although her daughter did her best to clean up the muddy mess, Heather was forced to enter and assist.

As is typical of any parent, she was shocked by the situation. However, as she began to muttering, she suddenly remembered another stain.

A stain that dates back 14 years. Heather had a boy who was four years old at the time, as well as triplets who were two years old. She had not yet given birth to a Girl.

She was having trouble getting her four active boys into bed this evening. Life was a constant whirlwind of activity and chaos with four young children in the house.

She spent the majority of her time chasing after her children, frequently having the impression that she was facing the prospect of a third World War.

“The heart was full of love, but the hands were full of work.”

She recalled the struggle of feeding and washing all four boys while cleaning up the usual mess as night fell 14 years ago.

As usual, the children were bouncing around, singing, and dancing while playing music. For a number of reasons, this would be the last time the house would feel like this for a while.

She noticed a large, dark blue stain on the carpet as she looked at it amidst the chaos and struggle to get the boys to sleep.

Jacob, one of the triplets, was standing nearby with a broken pen and ink all over the carpet. His body, his pajamas, and almost everything else in the room were also has ink.

Heather, of course, lost it when she saw this. She was getting impatient.

“When my husband started rubbing those light blue stains on our carpet, I immediately felt so upset that I grabbed my son’s hand and took him to the bathroom to clean it. Tears of frustration came to my eyes. I was just tired and angry like extremely angry. The mother continued: “I was angry with myself for leaving the pen outside where my toddler could reach it, but I wasn’t angry with my son, who was blue as a smurf.”

“Even though we only lived here for six months, the carpet was completely ruined. We scrubbed the stain for an hour that night, but it remained.

In vain, Heather and her husband even hired a professional cleaner.

Growing Dissatisfaction

She was still irritated by that stain, and she became enraged whenever she saw it.

“When I left the area that my young son had access to, it irritated me and made me feel like such a failure. In my life, that blue spot was just a huge negative. Heather states, “I hated it.”

But in a life-altering moment, it all vanished suddenly as her frustration with the stain grew.

The boy who lost his pen that day soon received a cancer diagnosis. James had passed away two years after the devastating news.

The blue spot remained when Jacob entered heaven.

“It remained there and now It was a constant reminder from my son. It served as a constant reminder of my anger over something so insignificant. something that is so unimportant in the grand scheme of things.”

Heather now wants all mothers to know that toddlers naturally make mistakes all the time. Raising young children can be a very frustrating experience, and as they get older, the parent faces additional difficulties.

The blue spot serves as a constant reminder for Heather that while life with children can be messy, it is worth living.

It serves as a constant reminder to concentrate on the big picture. A constant reminder that people not “things,” are what matter.

A constant reminder that mishaps do occur. A constant reminder to concentrate on what really matters and let go of the little things.

Heather admits that she would live with a million blue ink stains if it meant she could spend one more day with her son. She describes the mess as a “blessing in disguise.”

She wants to remind parents all over the world not to get too caught up in work or stress and to take pleasure in the seemingly insignificant things in life.

While Heather continues to clean, wash, and scrub after her children, she is now constantly reminded of the time she spent in the hospital with her infant son.

It is essential to keep in mind to concentrate on the essential aspects of life and to avoid becoming overly enraged when your children make mistakes or leave behind “blue spots” that last a lifetime.

Smurf-faced Pajamas, Large Stains on the Carpets, and Dirty Pajamas are all indications that we were successful along the way. We had a family.

If you agree with this mother, like and share Heather’s words!

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